The following is correspndence between a supposedly submissive male on collarme.com and me.
Asshole on 8/7/09 at 7:17 PM:
Hello Mistress, I have been on this site for a short while and have never met anyone yet. Most all want money. One wanted to film me for her own viewing but wanted me to sign a waver. Uh huh. I am writting because you sounded open, honest, and willing to give and take. Some things you are interested in and some things I am. I also look for things that I would like to explore like queening. I look at photo's on the internet and I would like to try it full body weight. As your actual chair. Could I really breath? Won't know till I try. I also think about actually drinking pee. Don't know if you are open to this or not. I am 43, in good shape, and would like to chat with you over a drink or cup of coffee if you are interested. I am on the South side of town. Let me know.
MistressLilyana on 8/9/09 at 10:11 AM:
Just reading your profile, it doesn't appear you're looking for the same thing I am - something that has the possibility of evolving into a LTR. I did notice you talking about a friendship beyond D/s though so maybe I'm mistaken. Let me know what it is you're ultimately looking for. If it's just someone to explored BDSM without dating or other relationship, I'm probably not the one for you.
Asshole on 8/9/09 at 10:29 AM:
Maybe we're not. For me it would be give and take. Like I said in my first letter. I will do things for you and you some for me. I would be willing to take you places, shows, dinner, ball games, comedy clubs. Just have fun.
In return you use me as your furniture, worship your body, toilet for urine.
I do not do strap on, (I don't have a gay bone in my body) or clean your house which I saw you want done very much.
If you truly enjoy giving pain I might entertain that. I do not enjoy pain, doesn't do anything for me. But like I said this is give and take. It is up to you....
MistressLilyana on 8/9/09 at 10:55 AM:
It sounds like to me you have more of a need to satisfy your fetishes than you are truly sexually submissive. Perhaps you'll find someone who can satisfy those needs for you but I'm probably not that person. I'm looking for a man who is truly sexually submissive. Good luck in your search.
Asshole on 8/9/09 at 11:07 AM:
Your loss. I do quite well and enjoy the finer things in life. My favorite place to eat is at the top of the world. I personally prefer it over Steve Wynns. While I refuse to pay the "pro" doms, I have no problem treating women to very nice dinners and shows. Unfortunately all the doms I have ran into want to sit on their fat asses and get their housework done for free and fuck the guy in the ass with a strap on. I am a man. Not gay or a bitch. I can in turn be very submissive in other aspects and am more than willing to please and be used. Actually I think you just want a maid to do your housework. You tolerate foot worship? Hell,,I've had my feet licked, kissed and sucked. It feels fantastic. Why wouldn't a dom? Whatever. I have little time to worry about what you like or want. We're done.
This doesn't even warrant a response but I thought it would provide some amusement for my blog readers.