I've been flirting with the idea for a few months now. Today I took the plunge.
I'm officially in a monogamous relationship with nodder.
I'm still polyamorous. That hasn't changed. I'm still capable of maintaining multiple sexual, emotional and/or spiritual relationships. But I'm choosing to engage in a monogamous relationship.
The reactions I'm getting are mixed.
"Awwww that's nice, right?"
"You've gotten into a monogamous relationship? What the fuck is wrong with you?"
"Good luck! I hope it all works out great."
"WHAT??? Not even other girls?"
"Do I know you? Monogamous? Wow. That's a big step."
"That's gonna be boring as fuck."
Boring? Yes, it's going to be BLISSFULLY BORING between nodder and me. Almost all of conflict we've had between us suddenly no longer exists because I'm no longer seeing or talking to anyone else.