My first sub is a former pro kick boxer and is currently a successful entrepreneur. By all accounts, a leader in every area of his life except one.
As far back as I can remember, the men in my life have all been the alpha male type, including my submissives. This is totally in keeping with the fact that I'm a bit of a handful (you're shocked at this revelation, I know) and probably require a partner that is as strong in their personality as I am.
Since 6, the prospective BF/subs I've been attracted to were all very much the "guy in charge" type. It's hot for me to have a man on his knees before me that's used to having the world by the balls.
I enjoy men who wear emit power like a pheromone. I particularly like the ones who don't have to flaunt it because it's obvious to everyone.
It's so hot when they whimper and beg.
But I digress.
I'm not sure how the rest of the world sees 7, honestly though I can't imagine they peg him as submissive. However, of all of the men I've dated, he is easily the most submissive.
He admits he feels weak around me and I swear I can feel him melt under my hands whenever I touch him. And we haven't even played yet.
On our second date, my martini was served to me with a thick, round rod of a swizzle stick. Of course my perverted mind immediately saw that it would make an excellent cane so I tried it out on 7's arm right there as we sat at the bar.
He sat there with a sexy half smile on his face and let me hit him. I knew his cock was rock hard in his jeans. I could see it in his eyes. I rubbed his arm gently and turned it over so that his tender inner arm was available to me and my mini cane.
He wasn't scared. He really shouldn't have been. There wasn't much damage I could do, though I did leave some marks.
Looking into 7's eyes as I contemplated using the mini cane on him again, I could see his submission and his excitement clearly. Gently rubbing his arm over the marks I'd left, I could feel him melting beneath my touch. Sitting there in that bar, he was showing me more submission than I've felt with other subs naked at my feet, begging and groveling.
It was beautiful. It was intoxicating. And it made me want him even more.