D/s relationship status: none
Relationship status: formerly dated
My Domme BFF and I came up with the term consort to denote the vanilla men we choose to have sex with. I originally ran across it used in some teen vampire books where it was used to refer to the human male a vampire high priestess feeds upon, and with whom she has really amazing sex and shares a psychic connection.
Then when I began dating my consort, I decided to look up the definition of the term. I found that it means "A companion or partner." This is completely accurate when it comes to describing my consort.
He's a Las Vegas local in his early 40's who's very open minded but not into the lifestyle. I enjoyed teaching him about the lifestyle but didn't particupate in any BDSM activities with him. He understood this is part of who I am and was supportive of me pursuing my kinky endeavors while we were together.