Sunday, June 30, 2013

Edging Part 2

For those of you who may not know, edging is bringing someone up to the point they're ready to cum but not letting them orgasm. If you've been reading my blog a while, you know it's one of my favorite ways to exert control. You may also remember my post about my FMT trying to edge me. Yep, he tried to edge a Domme. Such a funny guy, my FMT.

Well, I've started seeing my FMT again. Long time blog followers will remember him as the funny, sexy vanilla guy I had an open relationship with four years ago. Now he's back in my life and in my bed and if Friday night was any indication of things to come, things in both areas are about to get interesting thanks to his return.

"What did you think about THAT stamina?" my FMT asked as we lay in his bed, catching our breaths after a lengthy romp.

"Pretty impressive!" I was indeed impressed. He's 37 and hadn't slept with me in more than two years. I hadn't expected him to last anywhere close to as long as he'd lasted.

"Don't you want to know how I did it? Don't you want to know my secret?" he asked with the glee of a child bursting to enlighten me.

"You were thinking about baseball stats, right?" I figured he'd forgotten that he'd told me his secret more than four years ago when we first began dating. Thoughts of baseball stats and bills always helped him last longer.

"No, that USED to be what I'd do. Now I do something else and it's something I learned from you actually."

"From me?" I hadn't slept with my FMT in more than two years. I hadn't even seen him in 18 months. I couldn't imagine what he meant.

"Edging," he announced with a grin.

I laughed, "Oh really!"

"Yes. When I masturbate, a lot of times I edge myself. I'll watch porn until right before I'm ready to cum then stop, wait a few minutes, start another porno and do it again. That's really improved my stamina."

Of course I laughed at this and thought about our history with edging. How he'd enjoyed me edging him when we were together before and how frustratingly funny it was when he edged me.

I've always enjoyed edging because of the kind of control I can exert over a guy. The sadist in me finds it amusing in the hottest way. I guess I just never thought I'd experience a second benefit from edging, particularly from edging I'm not a participant in, but I'm SO going to enjoy it now!


  1. This is so true. I am not permitted to cum very often, so one would think that when I do get the opportunity I would cum fast....... Not the case!
    Because of all of the edging Miss Jessica puts me through, I can actually last longer than I did back in the day when I was allowed to cum everyday. I'm sure its part physical and part mental. I surely attribute it to edging and having more control in the act of orgasm.

  2. Funny, i have the opposite reaction. Edging makes me cum quicker because i get really horny from it.

    i've found that when Mistress and i are going at it, it is much more the position that sets me off than anything else. Even being really horny, if i'm on the bottom (no pun intended), and She is on top, i can go a very long time. If i'm taking Her from behind, it is much more difficult for me to hold back. She, of course, knows this and uses it to put me in impossible situations.