I often enjoy hearing the fantasies of male submissives. And sometimes they seem to be very similar to my own ideas.
But when it comes right down to it, it's ALWAYS going to be my call on how a scene is going to go down.
If a male sub wants to get on my nerves, he can do it easily by being pushy with his own fantasies. "I want to be tied like this and blindfolded and you could say . . ." Blah blah blah that is what it translates into for me sometimes when I hear too many details.
It's enough just to tell me, "I want to be restrained and taken like a little whore." That, I can do. I don't need a step by step guide on how to do it.
And I can for damn sure make it even better than your fantasy.